Listen to an enlightening, inspiring interview with Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project:

The Happiness Project is the memoir of the year I spent test-driving the wisdom of the ages, current scientific studies, and lessons from popular culture about how to be happier – happily, it was a #1 New York Times bestseller. As one of the hundreds of experiments I’ve conducted, I started this blog. Here, I recount my daily adventures in pursuit of happiness.” – Gretchen Rubin

 

War is hell. And it doesn’t end on the battlefield.

General Patton once asked a wounded soldier to describe his injuries. The soldier said, “It’s my nerves.” Patton slapped the man across the face and called him a coward.

The military’s response to what was once called “shellshock,” “battle fatigue,” and now PTSD, has changed dramatically, largely due to the astonishingly high numbers of veteran suicides during the Iraq war: between 2005 and 2007, suicide rates among veterans soared to 20% of the national total.

This number drops significantly among veterans receiving treatment at the VA. “[P]eople who have PTSD have suffered a wound, just like they’ve been shot, and need to be treated,” said Defense Secretary Robert Gates in a Pentagon Channel interview.

Online therapy, through sites like Breakthrough.com, has emerged as an alternative to reduce the effects of stigma. Veterans can access therapists confidentially, from any location, and with the option of maintaining their anonymity.

“Online counseling lets people get help where they are, physically and psychologically,” says Mark Goldenson, CEO of Breakthrough.com. “They don’t have to sit in a waiting room, explain why they are leaving home or work, or pay for gas or childcare. It lets people focus on getting better.”

Online counseling also helps people find the best provider for them, which research shows is an essential factor in getting better. Users can briefly talk online with potential counselors before committing to an entire session.

Online therapy also reduces costs for both clients and providers. It can eliminate travel costs, reduce administrative and overhead fees, and is increasingly covered by insurance (including Medicare and AMA).

While teletherapy is still a new practice, studies have shown that it can be as effective as in-person treatment. For example, a Lancet study found that online counseling more than doubled the likelihood of recovery for certain conditions.

With the military now encouraging soldiers and veterans to get help, perhaps fewer of our nation’s heroes will suffer in silence.

Many people who could benefit from psychotherapy don’t begin or stay in treatment because they think it’s too expensive. However, recent changes in the healthcare spectrum mean there are more options than ever before; insurance reimbursement for telecounseling makes it so that almost anyone can afford therapy.

Beyond its current affordability, a UK study found that psychotherapy is actually 32 times more effective at making you happy than money: a $1600 course of therapy had a happiness-equivalent of receiving a $50,000 raise. Based on their findings, it could be inferred that compared to therapy, money is a relatively inefficient way of achieving happiness.

The WHO estimates that depression is the leading cause of disability worldwide;  even nations which have experienced enormous economic growth have not seen concurrent increases in national happiness. This recent research suggests that in order to improve the national mood, nations would do better by expanding access to mental health care than concentrating on economic gains.

A penny saved is a penny earned — unless you spend it on therapy, in which case it is the happiness-equivalent of 32 cents.

Psychotherapy has been shown to help 90% of people who receive it, yet most who would benefit from it don’t go, largely because of the perceived costs.
However, online counseling, a form of telehealth, can cut costs (as much as 50% in some cases), and is now more affordable than ever due to new regulations on insurance reimbursement: you can now search for a therapist, preview their services, have a therapy session, and file your insurance claim, all without ever leaving home.
The American Psychological Association today issued an update on reimbursement of telehealth.
Currently:
-Over 100 private payers reimburse telemental health, with Blue Cross/Blue Shield being a leader.
-Medicare will reimburse live telemental health sessions at in-person rates when the client is in a qualifying location (generally a rural medical office). We’ve also heard they are working to expand these covered scenarios.
-Medicaid leaves telehealth reimbursement policies to its state offices, 35 of which currently reimburse in some form.
-Twelve states require reimbursement of telemental health: California, Colorado, Georgia, Hawaii, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine, New Hampshire, Oklahoma, Oregon, Texas, and Virginia.

With these new regulations, it is hoped that more of the 57 million Americans who would benefit from mental health services will be able to access them.

Everyone knows that an online session with a doctor or therapist can’t possibly be as effective as an in-person visit. Right?

It turns out, this is not necessarily true. A recent Lancet study found that for depression, online therapy (counseling sessions conducted via live video, chat, or email) was 2.4 times as effective as in-person sessions with a GP (the general go-to for depression within the UK health system). Depression is experienced by 1 in 6 people at some point in their lives; the associated labor-loss cost is estimated at $44 billion per year in the US.

“Online therapy lets people get help where they are,” says Mark Goldenson, CEO of Breakthrough.com, the online platform which connects mental health providers with clients through secure video, chat and email. “They don’t have to sit in a waiting room, they don’t have to explain why they’re leaving home or work, they don’t have to arrange childcare. It lets people focus on getting better.”

“Once the conversation starts, [they] forget there’s a screen between us,” says Dr. Kristopher Kaliebe, an assistant professor at Louisiana State University, who has telemed equipment set up in his home.

1 in 4 adults has a diagnosed mental illness. These 57 million Americans are nonetheless significantly underserved due to cost, inconvenience, low access in certain areas, and the effects of the stigma surrounding receiving mental health help.

With the establishment of Health Care Reforms, the Mental Health Parity Act, and the spread of technology, telecounseling may become a key part of the emerging healthcare spectrum. As 40 million newly-insured patients enter the health care system, and telecounseling is increasingly covered by insurance, big shifts may be expected. The most important tool in a doctor’s bag may soon become her laptop.

“In some ways, it’s a throwback to the housecall of the past,” says Goldenson. “Only in this case, the practitioner can be available at more times and from almost anywhere.”

About Breakthrough.com: Breakthrough.com connects mental health providers with clients through secure video, email and chat. Breakthrough.com is a startup in Menlo Park, CA, and has been covered in Forbes, Wired, and TechCrunch, and was recently named by Business Insider listed them as one of “The 15 Startups I Would Invest In If I Had The Cash” alongside Twitter, Foursquare and Zynga.

I get a chance to speak with the Drs Bill and Ginger Bercaw, sex therapists and authors of the upcoming “From The Living Room To The Bedroom.” We discuss sexual abundance, and how to nurture it in any relationship.

photo credit blog thoughtpick[Mar. 9]  The possibility of cheating in a relationship has always been a real threat to any relationship. With the addition of social media to the mix, things like flirting, meeting up with a potential lover, or exchanging love notes have been sped up!  The speed at which one can now find a new lover and start an affair is faster than ever before.  In online couple’s therapy, or relationships counseling,  a couple can discuss and explore their thoughts related to the potentiality of their partner’s cheating behaviors.  They would also discuss their own high-risk behaviors.

One article on PRNewswire.com discusses:

“We used to meet in bars, and restaurants, we now meet on Facebook and Twitter,” said David Jones, global CEO of Havas Worldwide and Euro RSCG Worldwide.  ”Social media hasn’t replaced but has enhanced real world relationships making them faster, more transparent and more authentic.”

With a lot more temptation available, couples are facing old challenges with new twists!

Read the rest of this entry »

By Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT-S\
Founding Director
The Sexual Recovery Institute (SRI)

1. Escalation of intensity of romantic and sexual behavior – more time or money spent, more intense sexual experiences etc.

2. Lying, hiding or keeping Secrets about your sexual behavior – living a double life.

3. Looking for relationships and sex has become your primary life priority.

4. Failed Previous Attempts to stop problem sexual or romantic behavior.

5. Sexual behaviors continue despite clear and obvious potential or actual consequences (legal, family, work, health etc.)

Rob Weiss is the founding director of the Sexual Recovery Institute in Los Angeles, which has experienced a 50% increase in business in the wake of Tiger Woods. We discuss sex addiction, the modern sex-scape, and “the process.”

This week we’ll be taking a look at sex, addiction and the psyche with sex therapists Drs. Bill and Ginger Bercaw, who run the California Center for Healing, and have just come out with a new book: From the Living Room to the Bedroom: Six Steps To True Intimacy And Sexual Abundance . We’ll also be speaking with Rob Weiss, founder and director of the Sexual Recovery Institute, which has experienced a 50% increase in clients in the wake of Tiger Woods news.

Join us live on Twitter to participate in the discussion.

We welcome your questions and comments. Let us know what’s on your mind, and what you’d like us to undress — er, address!

Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.