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[Mar. 9] The possibility of cheating in a relationship has always been a real threat to any relationship. With the addition of social media to the mix, things like flirting, meeting up with a potential lover, or exchanging love notes have been sped up! The speed at which one can now find a new lover and start an affair is faster than ever before. In online couple’s therapy, or relationships counseling, a couple can discuss and explore their thoughts related to the potentiality of their partner’s cheating behaviors. They would also discuss their own high-risk behaviors.
One article on PRNewswire.com discusses:
“We used to meet in bars, and restaurants, we now meet on Facebook and Twitter,” said David Jones, global CEO of Havas Worldwide and Euro RSCG Worldwide. ”Social media hasn’t replaced but has enhanced real world relationships making them faster, more transparent and more authentic.”
With a lot more temptation available, couples are facing old challenges with new twists!
You have completed your intake session. By now, your therapist has a clearer picture of what your goals are for therapy and how you hope to benefit from treatment.
So what happens next? This will differ depending on the type of treatment you have selected. Each individual therapist will differ in their approach to the session.
You took the time to set up an initial session with a therapist. So what happens next?
The first visit to a therapist is often one that is shrouded in mystery. Clients report feeling uncertainty as to what will take place during this initial session. Each therapist will have a different method for an initial intake session. However, the general format will usually have a few common steps.
What are those steps?
The happy marriage of the internet and technology has really opened many doors for receiving therapy in new and exciting ways.
One of those ways includes email exchange as a means of exploring pressing concerns you would like evaluated and shared with a therapist.
How would this work for you? How would writing an email be therapeutic and help you feel more satisfied in your personal relationships?
After taking part in the 2nd Annual Virtual Conference on Counseling, I have an even greater appreciation for technology and how it can help in work with families.
The workshops that made up the conference were all available either through 2nd life or as a live stream on the internet. One I attended that really caught my attention was Mediated Relationship Changes, by Katherine Herman and Courtney Holmes. Their presentation dealt with different aspects of family counseling and how it can be approached in new and dynamic ways via technology.
What really intrigued me was the notion of having a family member be part of a session despite the distance between the individual members. Families that have complicated schedules, frequent traveling or are involved in the military are but a few examples of families that can take advantage of the flexibility of online counseling. A family session could realistically be carried out through the use of a chat program and a web-cam. Family members that are unable to physically be at the session due to medical illness or impairment would be present through these technological tools.
One case study Herman and Holmes included proposed ideas for reaching a family communicating almost entirely through text-based mediums – texting on their cell phones or using social networking for keeping up to date with each other. It was interesting to see how therapy is an ever evolving field, using clients’ needs as a guide in tailoring treatment approaches to meet those needs.
What happens in an online family therapy session?

Online counseling and social media make a great team. Through the use of both of these tools, you can reach a greater audience and really cater your treatment to your specific client. How can you do this?

